A Case for better sex education and legalization of prostitution






Last week the news media both print and television were abuzz with the news of a once child start caught in a prostitution racket. The lady herself was rather candid about her situation. She said she had made some wrong choices in my career, and that she was in dire need of money to support her family and some other good causes.  She said that all the doors were closed, and some people encouraged her to get to turn to prostitution as choice of living. She said that she was helpless, and with no option left to choose, she got involved in this prostitution. 

As expected the news media showed no restraint or judgment in dealing with the story, within no time the lady was named and pictures of her as a child artist were all over the place. Funnily enough none of her ‘prominent’ clients were named. The usual experts were rounded up and within no time they were passing moral judgments and lamenting about the dark side of the film industry. Various news websites carried stories which had a similar tone and the comments from general readers also showed that most were outraged and words such as ‘immoral’ and ‘indecent’ were tossed around without much thought. They forget that the most decent and moral thing to do is to not scurrilously attack an individual without knowing all the fact and circumstances that led them to a situation.


So let’s take a million steps back and try to judge the circumstances surround this situation dispassionately. The economy functions on the simple principle of give and take; this has been happening since the beginning of mankind, it began with the barter system until money was invented as a medium of financial transaction. Somebody sell a product or a service and for which payment is made.  Be a doctor, who examines a patient to diagnose an ailment or a cobbler who makes his customer a pair of shoes or a teacher who teaches his students or an actress who portrays a character or a writer who writes a book or even a journalist to files a report. 

For each and every profession known to humankind the service providing individual uses their natural resources i.e. the body and the mind to provide a facility. Let’s now think of a prostitute, she too provides her customer with service. She too uses her body and her mind to provide these services for which a payment is made.

So why do we the people look down upon this profession, that many call the oldest profession in the world? There are two major reasons, the first reason is probably because the service is of a sexual nature and a very close second is because prostitution is almost always involved with criminal who are always looking to exploit and victimize everybody involved.

So let’s deal with the sexual aspect first. It is no secret that, we in India are not most comfortable talking about matters that are of a sexual nature. I confess I probably will not be comfortable reading aloud what I am writing in this article to my parents. There are those who say that sex is not Indian culture and they will be right because commodification of sex and objectification of the female form was never a part of Indian culture. We land of the Kamasutra where sex was treated with a wholesome attitude, was described as an act of giving pleasure and taking pleasure and even the possibility of creating a life. 

The reason we all are here is because of sex. There is no reason to not talk about it since; it is a bodily urge just like the hunger for food. Can we survive without food for long? A healthy and open discussion of this matter will ensure positive attitude and will prevent the possibility of the young and inexperienced resorting to external sources to satisfy a natural body urge and finding themselves get into trouble. The suppression and repression of this desire can never lead to anything good. There is no doubt that schools should have compulsory sex education that will doubtlessly clean up our prudish attitude with respect to matters pertaining to the libido.

The second problem is the criminal aspect of prostitution. But making prostitution illegal only encourages participation of only the worst criminal elements to become purveyors, this leads to exploitation and enslavement of prostitutes, there are also instances of sex trafficking that even involve underage girls. A prostitute often experiences situations of extreme violence but owing to the illegal nature of her profession has no option but to suffer in silence. Exploiters and predators are often emboldened to prey on prostitutes since they know it will never be reported to police. There is also the preponderance of sexually transmitted diseases owing the lack of health education.

We all know that there will always be a certain sort of individuals seeking company and there will always be women willing to offer their company, hence this profession will continue till the end of time, this clearly isn’t a passing fad. So what is the solution?  Plain and simple, make it legal; this provide a completer regulatory mechanism that will be crucial in protecting the rights of prostitutes. Nobody is suggesting that brothels be opened all over the city that would be wrong. There can be certain areas in cities and towns where prostitution officially permitted. The prostitutes themselves will be those who offer services out of their own volition and will have the ability to screen and reject client without and fear of repercussion. Most importantly this will prevent enslavement; the prostitutes decide their own prices and can quit their profession whenever they want to. There can be a permanent presence of doctors in these areas who can educate prostitutes and potential client about safe sex and help them in situations of need. 

There also can be a permanent police presence that will reduce the possibility of violence and victimization, should any such incidences occur, the police can deal with it with authority and the prostitutes can seek legal action without any fear.  The prostitutes themselves will have an official profession and can pay taxes that will be a great source of revenue for the government to do something positive as opposed to all the money going into the pockets of criminal elements which can be used to fund anything from criminal and terrorist activities. 

This will also enable prostitutes to avail themselves of the same social-welfare programs as other professions. Since everybody is registered it will reduce the possibility of sex trafficking or under-aged girl being force into the situation. Legalization will also save precious time of the police and courts, all the time spent raiding brothels that can be better invested investigating and prevent real crimes that cause harm to mankind. Had prostitution been legal, the story of the actress would have been a non-issue and perhaps she could have moved on with her life without this becoming such a sensational and squalid piece of gossip news.


We are a country that doesn't discriminate based sex, religion, case, and creed; let’s add profession to this list as well. In the end this legalization of prostitution is about protecting the individual and her dignity and there can be nothing indecent or immoral about it.

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